Planning A Funeral


Planning a funeral is never an easy task, but it is something that must be done when someone passes away. A funeral is not only a way to honor the deceased, but it is also a way to bring closure to family and friends. The process of planning a funeral can be overwhelming, especially during a time of grief, but here are some steps to help guide you through the process.

Step 1: Determine the type of service
The first step in planning a funeral is determining the type of service. Before making any decisions, consider the wishes of the deceased, their religious or cultural beliefs, and the preferences of immediate family members. Funerals can be traditional, religious, or a celebration of life. A traditional funeral may include a visitation, a funeral service, and a burial, while a celebration of life is more personalized and can include music, photos, and other forms of remembrance.

Step 2: Choose a funeral director
After deciding on the type of service, it is important to choose a funeral director. Funeral directors can guide you through the entire process of planning a funeral, from arranging transportation for the deceased to selecting a casket or urn. It is important to choose a funeral director who is licensed, experienced, and compassionate.

Step 3: Select a location
The location of the funeral will depend on the type of service chosen. Traditional funerals may take place at a funeral home or a place of worship, while a celebration of life may be held at a park, community center, or another location that holds special meaning to the deceased.

Step 4: Decide on the final disposition
The final disposition refers to the method of handling the remains of the deceased. This includes burial, cremation, or donation to science. This decision will impact the cost of the funeral and should be made after considering the wishes of the deceased and the preferences of family members. If the deceased did not leave any instructions, it is important to consult with family members before making a decision.

Step 5: Select a casket or urn
If the deceased will be buried, a casket will need to be selected. Caskets are available in a variety of materials, from wood to metal, and can range in price dependent upon your needs. If the deceased will be cremated, an urn will need to be selected. Urns are also available in a variety of materials and will also range in price dependent upon your choice.

Step 6: Plan the service
Planning the service involves selecting readings, music, and other elements that will be a part of the funeral. This is an opportunity to personalize the service and to make it meaningful to family and friends.

Step 7: Notify friends and family
Once the details of the service have been finalized, it is important to notify friends and family. This can be done through phone calls, emails, or social media. It is also a good idea to include the details of the service in an obituary, which can be published in local newspapers or online.

Step 8: Planning the reception
After the funeral, many families choose to hold a reception to allow guests to offer condolences and share memories of the deceased. The reception can take place at a family member’s home, a restaurant, or another location. It is important to consider the number of guests, the budget, and any dietary restrictions when planning the reception.

Step 9: Grieving and healing
The grieving process does not end with the funeral. It may take months or even years to come to terms with the loss of a loved one. It is important to seek support from family, friends, or a support group. Many funeral homes and churches offer grief counseling and other resources to help with the healing process.

In conclusion, planning a funeral is a difficult task, but it is an important part of honoring the life of a loved one. By following these steps and seeking help from a compassionate funeral director, families can create a meaningful and memorable service that honors the deceased and brings closure to family and friends.

Our experienced staff can advise and assist you through the process of making the arrangements for the funeral service. We understand that you may be unsure of how to make the arrangements and we will work with you to guide you every step along the way.

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At TCribb, we spend time getting to know you; respecting and honouring your loved one's final wishes. Each and every one of our Funeral Directors will be by your side to listen, advise and guide you through all your options.

Families choose us because the little details matter to us just as much as they matter to you.  We understand this is one of the most difficult times in your life, and we’re here to look after you and your loved one as if you were a member of our own family.