Choosing A Funeral Director


Dealing with death is never easy, but it’s something that we all must face at some point in our lives. Making arrangements for a funeral can be stressful and emotional, especially if you’ve never been through the process before. A funeral director can help you navigate this difficult time and ensure that you give your loved one the sendoff they deserve. However, not all funeral directors are created equal, so it’s essential to choose carefully. Here are some tips for selecting a funeral director.

1. Research multiple Funeral Directors

It’s always wise to do your research when it comes to choosing a funeral director. Don’t simply settle for the first one you come across. Shop around and compare different funeral homes to find one that suits your needs. Ask friends, family members or colleagues for recommendations, read reviews online and visit the websites of local funeral services. This way, you can get an idea of what kind of services each funeral director offers, their experience level, and how much they charge.

2. Make sure the funeral director is SAIF Compliant

Check that the funeral director you’re considering is SAIF compliant. You can usually find this information on their website or by visiting the SAIF website directly. A compliant funeral director will have the training and experience necessary to make sure everything runs smoothly and meet expectations. SAIF also ensure that best practice is carried out on every occasion, promoting consistency across the funeral sector.

3. Look for experience

When it comes to choosing a funeral director, you want someone who has the experience to handle everything from the simplest to the most complicated funerals. Ask your potential funeral director about their experience in the field, including how long they have been in the industry, the number of funerals they’ve handled, and their involvement in various religious or cultural traditions.

4. Consider the location

You may want to consider choosing a funeral director that is close to where the deceased lived or where you live. Consider the distance between the funeral home and the cemetery or crematorium. It’s essential that you feel comfortable with the location of the funeral home, especially if you’re planning a viewing or service for your loved one.

5. Review their services

Different funeral directors may offer different types of funeral services. Be sure to inquire about the specific kinds of services they provide. You may want to know if they can accommodate religious or cultural traditions, if they perform embalming, if they offer memorialization options, and more.

6. Discuss pricing

Funerals can be costly, and it’s important to figure out how much you can afford to spend. Ask the funeral director about their prices, and consider whether you want a simple funeral or something more elaborate. Ask for a written price list that includes all the services they provide, so you can see the costs upfront. Don’t forget to ask about any additional charges, such as flowers, transportation, obituaries, etc.

7. Go with your gut feeling

Ultimately, choosing a funeral director comes down to how comfortable you feel working with them. You’re going to be dealing with this person during an emotionally challenging time in your life, so trust your instincts. If you don’t feel comfortable with a particular funeral director, then consider moving on to another one. You should be able to communicate openly with your chosen funeral director, and they should be responsive and professional throughout the process.


Selecting the right funeral director can make all the difference when it comes to making arrangements for your loved one’s funeral. By doing your research, checking their credentials, and considering all the factors mentioned above, you can find a funeral director who will work with you to create a fitting tribute to your loved one. Remember, however, that it’s ultimately up to you to make the final decision. Take your time and don’t rush into anything; make sure that the funeral director you select is the right one for you and your family.

Our experienced staff can advise and assist you through the process of making the arrangements for the funeral service. We understand that you may be unsure of how to make the arrangements and we will work with you to guide you every step along the way.

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At TCribb, we spend time getting to know you; respecting and honouring your loved one's final wishes. Each and every one of our Funeral Directors will be by your side to listen, advise and guide you through all your options.

Families choose us because the little details matter to us just as much as they matter to you.  We understand this is one of the most difficult times in your life, and we’re here to look after you and your loved one as if you were a member of our own family.